I asked him why he didn't ask his wife to give him genital massages that he found so incredibly intense.
Sure, I know where and how I like to be touched but all men are a little different. And just like I can't tickle myself, I get a completely different wonderful sensation when my wife strokes me than when I stroke myself.
I mean, if you want to give a guy such intense pleasure that he'll be ADDICTED TO YOU AND YOUR HANDS, then I couldn't just slap something together.
Then he asked me a personal favor. He asked if I would put a guide together that he could give to his wife. One that was clear yet explicit on how to give guys heavenly genital massages. He said his wife would trust me since I've been on Oprah and all those other talk shows and have written about sex and lovemaking for years.
I thought I could whip out a guide in one night. But the more I thought about it and researched I realized that giving an amazing hand job is not a simple thing.
He said that he knows what feels good, he just has a hard time communicating it in the bedroom. He said she did stroke him but it wasn't anything special and actually at times it was not pleasurable at all.
With their help along with my 20 plus years of professional experience as a highly respected lovemaking expert I was able to put together the most comprehensive guide to giving guys heavenly hand jobs.
Fortunately I have a mailing list of nearly 100,000 men who are very willing to share on this topic. I asked their advice on their favorite positions, techniques and locations to receive hand jobs. I wanted to know what drove them insane with pleasure and what was uncomfortable. I asked where on their body (not just their genitals) they liked to be touched and where specifically between their legs was the hottest spots for them.